Realization

You know sometimes in life when, life hits you and, hits you hard? Why is it that our expectations rarely match our reality? Or is it the other way around? In any case, sometimes life just kicks you when you're down. I am the eternal optimist and at the same time can't help but feel that somethings will never change. Recently, our family had an experience that I knew would change everyone, forever. It didn't. The change was temporary and a farse. Only for show. Most people who say they care, actually do care somewhere deep inside. For others, it's only for show. This is the case for those who don't change when they should. Enough of my ranting. Just a bit of advice before I go....make a change where change is needed.